It also provides biblical insight on how to handle unhealthy relationships, but the best bit of advice any Christian could ever receive from a book on relationships is the reminder that the goal of every connection is to be sure that the connection gives glory to God and brings us closer to him. There are valuable lessons on understanding the wants/needs of men and women. Ultimately, whether you are single, dating, or married there is something profound and biblical about the way this book encourages you to make the most of whatever season you are in.Īfter reading this book you will walk away asking yourself this one question about all of your relationships: is this relationship drawing me closer to God? I think that is the most profound idea of this entire book. Instead of using fictitious scenarios or examples, he talks about real-world problems and this helps his audience to picture themselves within the pages of this book.

The use of stories from people he has counseled also help to build some emotional engagement with readers. Pastor Todd connects with his readers by being very transparent about the successes and struggles of his relationship, and now marriage, with his wife Natalie. He accomplishes this by frequently returning to what I think is his primary message, or the primary goal of relationships, which is bringing glory to God. While this book may sound like a self-help book to someone from a conservative theological background, Todd is able to maintain some balance. It is often difficult to find someone who writes from a modern lens and yet maintains a solid biblical perspective. I think many books on love and relationships, specifically from Christian authors, have become inherently liberal. Let me say that Michael Todd’s perspective on relationships is pleasantly biblical. Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex by Michael Todd

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